Well, that was easy :)
Everyday we talk a bit more about that idea. One day Derek said to them "What if we did take one of those orphans to live here with us?" Ryan said, " That would be great!" Derek said "Well, what if the one we took home had different color skin then you....maybe a bit darker? Maybe even black?"
Ryan : "Well that is no big deal, when they move here they won't be in the sun as much, so their tan will go away and they will be more pink"
Jack: "Ummmmm. That wouldn't be good. It would be really wierd."
Yikes. I guess we have a bit of work to do. Actually, since then Jack has gotten used to that idea.
They have no time frame in their minds except for "one day, when our baby comes home...." and for now, that is good enough.